Sure, I can accept a default in justice much like I can eventually accept a break in our community based on the bad behaviors of some. However, that doesn't mean I still don't have obligations to other people who may be caught in the same situation; especially in situations that were likely engaged in the past and have a high chance of being repeated by others in the future. Because these behaviors appear to be relatively common, supported by some in official positions, and they are aggressive and dangerous in nature I feel that I have more of an obligation to talk about them then I do to stay silent (Think of it as a societal development and moral issue. Certain behaviors should not be encouraged even if there is little will for justice.). The vast majority are exceptional and warm people. We are just talking about this central group and how their beliefs impact everything around them.
(These could all be fictitious hypotheticals. However, it is still a great story to learn and adapt from on how to build a stronger nation on a root social level. One would need to have a deep understanding of the micro and macro aspects of social interactions to understand how to fix problems like this on root social levels. I'm an advocate for positive social interaction and hedging our human capital through focus on shared principles and wholeness of conception. I call it universal American principles or a universal democracy.)
The Dangerous Situation
These people yell out "Your father is a Bitch to my kids" and then go down a series of group/clan based events of pulling them over, involving them in dangerous situations, stalking the father, creating potentially violent situations, employment rejection (I don't care about it that much as I was just trying to be helpful but it is still a concern for others.) spreading rumors on and off line, manipulation of the elderly, encouraging illegal targeting and doing much more. It appears to be a total default on the system based in the distortion, bigotry and greed of a few people.
(The people who started this are used to dominating their social network and I think there are many reasons why they would engage in this behavior from hate to finances. Its kind of obvious when you start digging into all of the actions and their goal directed behaviors.)
Can I truly expect that people are going to wake up one day and then say, "Wow, we really went after that guy and his family based on intentionally set rumors designed to enrich some and ensure that blacks, Muslims, and other minorities never feel welcome or safe in our community?". Different people might adjust that to other things such as, "I hear all Muslims are violent and this is my country and I don't want people like this around. I will do my part to ensure that these dark subhumans don't come to destroy my community" (Just ignore all of the assumptions about "their town", historical roots, freedom of religion, etc. These are big discussions on cultural assumptions. The Cultural Socialization Scale: Assessing Family and Peer Socialization toward Heritage and Mainstream Cultures
(Some of you may not know what implicit bias is. Implicit bias is when we take certain beliefs to be true even though they may be a reflection of a person's thoughts versus actual measurable data that can be observed in the environment. i.e. focuses on the one Black guy who stole something to represent the general values and beliefs of all Black people. One White extremist comes to represent all White people. I could go on to further say an implicit bias is putting kids in harms way because someone create a rumor to exploit those biases to harm, control, and profit off of hate. People lie to get stuff all the time. Lying in a group that lives in the rumor mill is a powerful tool of ostracization. When mixed with close friendships of fellow clan members in law enforcement it moves down a dangerous path. I think that is the leading explanation at the moment. )
A Simple and Subtle Example
Let me give you a subtle example beyond all of the more obvious examples presented prior. I see a guy who knows some people I know and we don't talk much. We don't because when I see him he tenses up, gets quite and out of the corner of his eye watches me like a hawk. Not yet fully sure why. but I believe him to be affiliated with "the clan" and the beliefs of the central clan members (One might say friend network and could even go as far as cult. I think clan is sort of the best reflection I can come up with at the moment because it is a highly socialized friends but also share other characteristics that are dysfunctional.)
I'm minding my own business and I looked over to listen to a conversation that was happening as a group discussion a few feet away. It wasn't a private conversation and was sort of open to the public but I was impressed by a good natured moment in which older people were sharing wisdom with younger people (See the beautiful side of communities. I encourage this engagement of young and old. Even more so across ethnic, racial, and religious lines to create wholeness.). I probably could have jumped into the conversation and that would have been acceptable in this circumstance.
Then I realized out of the corner of my eye this guy was staring at me and with serious dislike/concern. When I looked at him, he looked away, and then I went on doing my business. No more issues and it was a small issue with wider ramifications (I don't even think he was aware he was staring. I don't think he is a bad guy. He is naturally reacting to the stage set by others). However, I realized that this person must be hyped up on all types of rumors and information. Some of these people feel I'm a threat, that my kids are a threat, and that we should not be allowed to be in the same area.
Some Reflection
I scratch my head and ponder my past and think while I'm not a perfect person I been a pretty good person. Never in my life have I hurt a person or even picked a fight as a kid. People who know me know I'm sort of passive in my nature (I'm the type if I lie you can read it on me so most of the time I just either say nothing or say my unvetted perspective and that causes problems as well.) However, these people view me as something dark and evil. I guess that is one of the signs of the subtle impact of hate, rumors and clans. They are in their own world with their own constructed reality that isn't reflecting reality. The danger comes from the rumors and the lack of diverse exposure to other people that makes people outside their clan sort of the embodiment of evil and "the other" (We can go into this on a sociological level of tight socialized groups around identity, distrust of outsiders, etc. )
One of the reasons why I had to draw some boundaries was for the health and safety of my children. These adults were pushing their distorted perceptions of Blacks and Muslims onto my children ( I have a laundry list of reasons I could cite) and that was beginning to impact the well being of my kids. I felt the changes. They were not at first overt but it didn't take long before the signaling (as a implicit communication conception) became apparent and that would eventually damage my kids sense of identity. (I know they don't see it that way and I know they don't have the awareness to understand on that level. 60% of society understands it fairly clearly.) Raising “Antiracist Disruptors”: Illuminating Socialization Practices that Support Antiracism in Multiracial Households
I suspect there are a few thinking (Not specific to the example or the guy because I can't make that judgement without knowing him well.) but only a general observation of how certain toxic behaviors impact people's perceptions and in turn treatment of others. I do believe based on my understanding of the past and various repeated behaviors that something like this might be true for say 10% of the clan, "Well, if you don't like us treating you this way you should move! Don't expect me to make people who are like those ____fill in the blank________feel comfortable in my town. We don't need people like that who cause all the problems around here!" (We can look in history and science to give us some explanation on how fear mongering creates real dangers for people.)
I'm learning so we call can learn together. We may or may not see justice depending on the moral conscious of the system (It tries but its imperfect like we are imperfect.) but what we can say is that as a society we can learn about how to build a better nation and a brighter tomorrow. The battle is more over hears and minds that among my fellow Americans/"Americans" which I hope someday we will resolve so it leads to a more universal, "Our American Principles".💇😬💨 (BTW one day I mentioned Our American Principles in my writing and some members of the group went berserk! Crazy stuff! It would appear there are some who don't want us to be one indivisible people and are very opposed to it and will break liberty and justice in order to clearly state even mentioning shared communities is opposed.).
Are biased rumors dangerous or inappropriate? I guess it depends on who you ask. 🤔 I think in our society we should encourage good behaviors and discourage destructive behaviors. In a cultural transition we have to figure out which is which. Those with the gifted curse sometimes have insight into issues others might not have. In respect for my father, grand father, and great fathers who come from this area and fought to keep our nation free. We respect the great men in our lives and their sacrifices to our lives and to our society. Honoring them requires to honor their principles and generations of principles that went before, Our American Principles. May our fathers wisdom pass to this and the next generation (Today is father's day so give honor through the power of "being". Father's Day and Juneteenth. Our fathers pushed for freedom and through polite persistence we will do the same.).