Showing posts with label Memorial day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Memorial day. Show all posts

Monday, May 26, 2014

Memorial Day Events in San Diego-Spend Your Time Wisely



American Flag

Everyone loves Memorial Day as a day of festivities and fun. It is also a day of sorrow and the many souls sent to the reaches of some other place so that each of us can enjoy life as we currently know it. On Memorial Day every minute is borrowed. Borrowed from the man who perished in a trench, the one who sunk at the helm of a ship or the secretary that burst up the stairwell in a mad dash to ensure the next order was telegraphed without delay. Minutes don’t come cheap on this day and every clock hand was earned through blood, sweat and tears. Memorial Day is just one day in the sequence of days borrowed and each generation will need to add their contribution to keep the clock working properly.

 

The festivities are part of that day of souls and every laugh, social gathering, bbq sandwich and bratwurst should be a feast; feast for being in the moment of life. Some will remember those who left us a future while many have already forgotten. Some heroes were well known and some died unknown but each willingly traded their time. Memorial Day is a day to eat, sing, and most of all spend that borrowed time well. 

 

US Midway

If you are looking for events San Diego has a smorgasbord of options and opportunities. Many of the events are free while others will charge you a pittance; a few may charge you more. Ideas range from walks in the part, memorial services, placing wreaths on grave sites, visiting historical landmarks and social parties. Perhaps you prefer to donate.  Choose one but most of all just remember-that all time is a gift from one generation to the next.

 


Events: 



Veteran’s Donations: 


Monday, May 27, 2013

Memorial Day-Remembrance of the Past with an Eye on the Future

Union and Confederate Soldier- Cousins, Friends or Brothers?
Memorial Day is a day of vacation, fun, parks, friends, and meat on the grill. It is all of these things as well as much more. Memorial Day also includes the remembrance of those who have given the ultimate sacrifice so that the rest of us may enjoy these sunny days. As you are spending your day in carefree joy, try and keep in the back of your head the essential purpose of Memorial Day. Perhaps you want to drop a few flowers at a war veterans site and spend a moment remembering them.

The history of the Memorial Day is an interesting one. It was proclaimed on May 5th, 1868 by General John Logan. He issued the ceremony (http://www.usmemorialday.org/order11.html) by laying flowers at the graves of both Confederate and Union graves. To him it was important to honor the dead of the country and the ultimate sacrifice they made to their nation. It was the continuous search for national truth that compelled these solders to lay down their hearts, leave their families, and sacrifice their bodies so that others could live free.

Following suit congress passed the National Holiday Act of 1871 solidifying the concept of a national day of mourning. The Grand Army of the Republic, a union veterans group, supported the event because the flowers would be in full bloom. It would seem that such flowers represent the generation of new life and new beginnings. The day is expected to focus closely only on those who died trying to give that new cycle.

Some of the first national ceremonies were held in Gen. Robert E. Lee’s Arlington’s mansion with Ulysses S. Grant presiding over the affair. The history dates back to 1866 when Confederate women decorated the graves of their soldiers who died at Shiloh. Seeing the bare Union graves they began to decorate them as well (http://www.va.gov/opa/speceven/memday/history.asp).

The Civil War was one of the most difficult and causality driven wars of history with nearly a half-million deaths. When considering all of the American deaths through all of the wars reaching approximately 1.2 million the Civil War was almost half. American upon American each fighting over their particular vantage points of life, perception of freedom, commerce and country. Without serious sacrifice the country we know today would cease to exist as the sole nation from coast to coast. Opportunities of the present were built on the past.

As you set upon your day consider the many struggles the nation faced in the past and the many more it will face in the years to come. In some ways today’s threats are battles over international influence, future opportunities, and the very way people make meaning of their lives. America still has a legacy to teach but must overcome its current financial and cultural difficulties to be ready for any challenges the future may bring.

William Herndon, a law partner with Lincoln, stated a number of years after Lincoln's speech, “"Through logic inductively seen, Lincoln as a statesman, and political philosopher, announced an eternal truth -- not only as broad as America, but covers the world.".

Lincoln’s Address:

A house divided against itself cannot stand. I believe this government cannot endure, permanently, half slave and half free. I do not expect the Union to be dissolved — I do not expect the house to fall — but I do expect it will cease to be divided. It will become all one thing or all the other. Either the opponents of slavery will arrest the further spread of it, and place it where the public mind shall rest in the belief that it is in the course of ultimate extinction; or its advocates will push it forward, till it shall become lawful in all the States, old as well as new — North as well as South.